Wednesday, July 20, 2022

How Presentation Affects Representation - #DwhellOnIt Ep. 56

How Presentation Affects Representation - #DwhellOnIt Ep. 56


"Taylor Lakhryst was an undecided voter who participated in a #CBC program called Face to Face during last year's federal election campaign. While being on the show gave her a chance to ask questions of a party leader, she felt CBC's production choices spoiled the experience by making her appear inept and powerless."


❓ - What's #DwhellOnIt?

👀 - Dwhell On It is a series where I answer your questions about my lived experience as a #trans woman!

📺 - A new episode gets uploaded every week!


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9:05 - "While you expressed #gratitude for the #opportunity to provide visibility on the subject of abuse toward the 2SLBGTQIA+ #community, you felt that #CBC made choices which diluted your appearance. It left you feeling, if not misrepresented, then underrepresented."

12:38 - It feels as if #CBC chose to represent me as what I interpret as inept, powerless, and stuck with candy-coated concerns because who I am isn't palatable enough for Canadians who can't cope that #people such as myself strive to inspire and create #change.

16:27 - #Social platforms highlighted my segment as being of the utmost importance on an issue that had not been placed front and centre in the campaign until my appearance.

17:38 - I continued to focus much of my argument on the treatment of my introductory video. I emphasized how problematic it was that this video highlighted "my love for #sports and karaoke" while omitting more substantive #comments about the importance of placing responsibility for bigotry and hate-based abuse on the abusers rather than the victims.

21:39 - "I'm an undecided voter because" and "Let's be #leaders …" were extracted from two completely different sections of what I provided. #CBC created that line and not me, and I'm not sure if that is conducive to "accuracy."

22:41 - "You stated that you followed all the directives given to you in advance by producers, yet you were the only one of the four participants given less than 40 seconds of airtime."

26:13 - "You also reiterated that #CBC exercised poor judgment when it failed to include your exchange about pronouns with #ErinOToole.”

27:45 - CBC watered me down and presented me with the safest, most palatable and most comfortable image they could build based on the information I provided.

29:05 - "Your complaint is, first and foremost, a reminder that the stories journalists tell are not really "theirs." They are the stories of real #people with real lives, ambitions, and concerns."

30:21 - Journalistic Standards and Practices covers much ground regarding ethical #journalism but doesn't cover specific circumstances.

32:52 - "There is more debate to be had about editing your introductory video … it's clear that those producers took two risks with your video."

36:40 - "On your frustration that the #question you asked on the show was "negotiated," … I worried it meant that programmers were forcing you to ask the questions that they wanted."

39:49 - End anti-2SLGBTQIA+ abuse!


🔗 - Links!

How Presentation Affects Representation

Your Friends Appreciate a Random Check-In Call or Text More Than You Realize

What four undecided voters asked #ErinOToole | Face to Face 2021

#Media and #journalism are transphobic. I was on #CBC News: The National Face to Face

#Canada Voted In Favour of Policing Women's Bodies!

Is there anything that #people expect you to be good at but are very bad at?

#CBC News: The National | #ErinOToole, Alberta's deadly COVID-19 surge, TIFF returns


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📣 - End anti-2SLGBTQIA+ abuse!

📣 - You can #help! Everything inspiring HireWheller stays ongoing - biased systems, ignorant platforms, violent abusers & isolated victims.

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#Canadian #gender #grateful #interview #Manitoba #news #out #respect #safety #success #Winnipeg #YouTube

#active #activism #anxiety #athlete #business #causes #charity #donate #energy #equality #fundraising #lesbian #LGBT #LGBTQ #kindness #marketing #media #nonbinary #philanthropy #pride

Monday, July 11, 2022

Expectations, Responsibilities and Talking to Goldfish - #DwhellOnIt Ep. 55


Expectations, Responsibilities and Talking to Goldfish - #DwhellOnIt Ep. 55


"Putting the responsibility on #trans #people to drive the #change against cis people who have implemented the reasons why trans people get oppressed is a tall order to ask."


❓ - What's #DwhellOnIt?

👀 - Dwhell On It is a series where I answer your questions about my lived experience as a #trans woman!

📺 - A new episode gets uploaded every week!


‼️ - Get engaged!

➕ - Subscribe for more episodes & similar content!

✉️ - Comment w/ thoughts & questions!

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03:25 - "You mention you don't regret the time lost. I'm starting HRT at 39, but I've been questioning my #gender for 15-20 years, and I'm constantly thinking about what would have happened if I'd figured it #out or been braver early on. How do you do that?"

16:36 - Is there anything you feel as a #trans person you do better than a cis person?

26:51 - How do you deal with trolls? Is there anything you wish you could do to trolls?

29:17 - Is there anything that #people expect you to be good at but are very bad at?

35:06 - Is there a responsibility you feel is unfairly put on #transgender #people?

40:08 - End anti-2SLGBTQIA+ abuse! - https://act.newmode.net/action/hirewheller/csr


🔗 - Links!

I'm still closeted and don't know if I could ever come #out because I'll get seen like I'm different. Did or do you still feel the same way, and how do you cope with that?

What are your best recommendations for allies to know about?

#Canada Voted In Favour of Policing Women's Bodies!

My Call to Action For #Trans Day of Visibility

Does Sport #Manitoba Fund Non-Inclusive PSOs?


👀 - Create change!

📣 - End anti-2SLGBTQIA+ abuse!

📣 - You can #help! Everything inspiring HireWheller stays ongoing - biased systems, ignorant platforms, violent abusers & isolated victims.

📣 - Grassroots power comes from its people! Get involved or refer others you know to challenge systemic violence & oppression!


💻 - Connect!

HireWheller: A grassroots group aiming to help the 2SLGBTQIA+ community overcome often-minimized struggles.

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👱🏼‍♀️ - Look me up!

TaylorLakhryst: #Transgender woman, advocate, INFJ, ♊️, she/her/hers 🏳️‍⚧️

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Monday, July 4, 2022

#Canada Voted In Favour of Policing Women's Bodies! - #DwhellOnIt Ep. 54

#Canada Voted In Favour of Policing Women's Bodies! - #DwhellOnIt Ep. 54

📣 - Codifying testosterone-based #science as the indicator of who is eligible to be considered a girl sets a precedent in which womanhood continues to get policed.


🗣 - "#Trans exclusion pits woman athletes against one another, reinforces the harmful notion that there is only one right way to be a woman & distracts us from the real threats to women's #sports." - Cheryl Reeve, coach

🗣 - "#Transgender #people don't transition for athletics. "We transition to be happy, authentic & our true selves." - #LiaThomas, swimmer

🗣 - "While everyone is hyper-focused on hypotheticals in elite levels of competitions, #transgender kids are dying." - Anne Lieberman, Athlete Ally


❓ - What's #DwhellOnIt?

👀 - Dwhell On It is a series where I answer your questions about my lived experience as a #trans woman!

📺 - A new episode gets uploaded every week!


‼️ - Get engaged!

➕ - Subscribe for more episodes & similar content!

✉️ - Comment w/ thoughts & questions!

👍🏻 - Please like & share!


🔖 - Bookmarks!

09:56 - #Trans INclusion is INclusion – INclusion INcorporated

18:57 - International #Olympic Committee releases Framework on Fairness, Inclusion & Non-Discrimination based on #gender identity and sex variations

24:05 - #Gender Verification No More? - Myron Genel, MD

26:00 - What Is Sex? - Neuroscience. 2nd edition.

32:06 - The International #Olympic Committee Has a New #Trans Inclusion Framework, but Is the Damage Already Done? - Frankie de la Cretaz

33:29 - Women's bodies get policed. #FINA #trans #swim policy shows 'equal but separate' is exclusion. - Shireen Ahmed

34:44 - Four Myths About #Transgender Athletes, Debunked. Upholding #trans athletes' rights requires rooting #out the inaccurate beliefs underlying harmful policies. - Chase Strangio & Gabriel Arkles

38:35 - We celebrated #MichaelPhelps's genetic differences. Why punish Caster #Semenya for hers? - Monica Hesse

42:46 - #MichaelPhelps' #transgender ex-girlfriend says Olympian's views on #trans athletes felt like a 'slap in the face.' - Josh Milton

43:36 - World Rugby's #transgender athletes ban a 'dangerous precedent.' - Alex Berg

50:56 - Canadian Women & Sport & the Canadian Centre for Ethics in Sport / #CCES Oppose World Rugby Ban of #Transgender Women

52:03 - #Transgender athletes barred from International Rugby League

55:25 - The UCI Announces Changes to Its Policy on #Transgender Athletes. - Molly Hurford

59:51 - 'I Am Lia': The #Transgender Swimmer Tells Her Story - Robert Sanchez

01:03:10 - New world #transgender athletes ban ignores one little thing. Reality. How the #trans #swimming ban may set up a hierarchy in the #community. - Frankie de la Cretaz

01:08:43 - #Letters4TransKids - "You Know Who You Are!" - Support #Trans Kids Targeted By Legislative Attacks!

01:12:56 - As Lawmakers Escalate Attacks on #Transgender Youth Across the Country, #Leaders Stand Up for Them - Henry Berg-Brousseau - https://tinyurl.com/2cbd8khd

01:18:28 - There is no 'middle ground' on #trans inclusion in youth #sports. Cis female #Olympic champions are lobbying to remove rights from #transgender girls. - Lindsay Gibbs

01:21:03 - Family Formation: How 2SLGBTQIA+ Families Get Created.

01:22:59 - Kids Often Come #Out to Their #Parents Last.

01:25:21 - Barriers to #HealthCare for #Transgender Individuals - Joshua D. Safer, et al.

01:36:10 - The real threat to women's #sports? It is not #transgender women. - Alex Azzi

01:37:32 - It is Not Fair! But What Is Fairness? Three different ideas of fairness: sameness, deservedness & need. - Arthur Dobrin D.S.W.

01:44:06 - #Canada voted for the world #swimming body's #transgender #athlete policy. - Donna Spencer

01:53:45 - #Sports minister freezes Hockey Canada's #government funding in the wake of sex assault settlement. - Joshua Clipperton

02:04:45 - If you are an individual invested in #equity in #sports, you can #help oppose the bans.

🔗 - Links!

International #Olympic Committee Framework on Fairness, Inclusion & Non-Discrimination based on #Gender Identity and Sex Variations

Kentucky banned #trans kids from #sports to keep this 12-year-old girl from playing #hockey - Nico Lang

#Gender Verification in the #Olympics - Joe Leigh Simpson, MD., et al.

Genital inspection provision to be removed from Ohio #transgender #athlete ban - Brooke Migdon

#Canada is the first country to provide census data on #transgender & #nonbinary #people.

Rugby Canada Provides Update on Feedback to #Transgender Athletes Guidelines

Rugby Canada - #Trans Inclusion Policy

Creating Inclusive Environments for #Trans Participants in #Canadian Sport

The ban violates the #humanrights of #transgender & #gender-diverse women. - Canadian Women & Sport & Canadian Centre for Ethics in Sport / #CCES

International Rugby League Bans #Transgender Women from Participating - Zach Koons

Canada Rugby League Association Inclusion Policy

USPORTSca Approves Inclusive New Policy For #Transgender Student-Athletes

Policy on Eligibility for The Men's & Women's Competition Categories

Homeless rates for 2SLGBTQIA+ teens are alarming, but #parents can make a difference. - Jaimie Seaton

2022 National Survey on 2SLGBTQIA+ Youth #MentalHealth

A study shows #transgender youth have high parental support but lack access to #care.

What do pubertal blockers do? What are the benefits of the use of pubertal blockers?

#Transgender Youth Referred to Clinics for #Gender-Affirming #Medical #Care in #Canada - Greta R. Bauer, Ph.D., MPH

#Trans #healthcare in #Canada needs significant improvements.

My Call to Action for #Trans Day of Visibility!

Definition of "fairness" (noun)

Tommy Tuberville's Pathetic Attempt to Attack #Transgender Kids Nationwide Fails. - Delphine Luneau

#Transgender #people face growing backlash, high violence, discrimination & poverty levels.

Experiences of violent victimization and unwanted sexual behaviours among gay, #lesbian, #bisexual & other sexual minority #people and the #transgender population - Brianna Jaffray

A statistical portrait of #Canada's diverse 2SLGBTQIA+ communities. Concerns remain in terms of acceptance, #mentalhealth & well-being.

#FINA votes to restrict #trans participation in elite women's competition. The new policy requires #transgender competitors to have completed their transition before age 12. - Ciaran Fahey.

Sport Canada funds many organizations that nationally represent #Canada's #sports system through the Sport Support Program.

Water Polo Canada Inclusion Policy

Swimming Canada - #Equity, Diversity & Inclusion - Purpose

Diving Canada - #Equity, Diversity & Inclusion Policy - Definitions

Canada Artistic Swimming #Equity, Diversity & Inclusion Policy - Principles of #Equity, Diversity, & Inclusion

Sport Canada discontinues survey on inclusion after complaints of discrimination toward #transgender athletes.

Let's Talk About #Sports, Emm Bee!

Does Sport Manitoba Fund Non-Inclusive PSOs?

#Canada's #government provides updates & announces action about safe sport.

From the London Declaration - "Expectations for Fairness in Sport."

Red Deer Declaration - For the Prevention of Harassment, Abuse & Discrimination in Sport

Allyship as #activism: advancing #social #change in global sport through transformational allyship. - Shannon Jolly et al.


👀 - Create change!

📣 - End anti-2SLGBTQIA+ abuse!

📣 - You can help! Everything inspiring HireWheller stays ongoing - biased systems, ignorant platforms, violent abusers & isolated victims.

📣 - Grassroots power comes from its people! Get involved or refer others you know to challenge systemic violence & oppression!


💻 - Connect!

HireWheller: A grassroots group aiming to help the 2SLGBTQIA+ community overcome often-minimized struggles.

Instagram Facebook Twitter


👱🏼‍♀️ - Look me up!

TaylorLakhryst: #Transgender woman, advocate, INFJ, ♊️, she/her/hers 🏳️‍⚧️

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Sunday, June 19, 2022

Fears, Bathrooms, Old Age and Allyship! - #DwhellOnIt Ep. 53

Fears, Bathrooms, Old Age and Allyship! - #DwhellOnIt Ep. 53


"I know that going in public settings risks ignorant #people thinking they can belittle me. I'm not going to let that stop me from doing things that I want, need or, especially, have a right to do."


❓ - What's #DwhellOnIt?

👀 - Dwhell On It is a series where I answer your questions about my lived experience as a #trans woman!

📺 - A new episode gets uploaded every week!


‼️ - Get engaged!

➕ - Subscribe for more episodes & similar content!

✉️ - Comment w/ thoughts & questions!

👍🏻 - Please like & share!


🔖 - Bookmarks!

02:54 - Are there any #events you wish you had a video of?

04:38 - As a trans person, what does "old age" mean to you?

06:33 - Did transitioning excite or scare you?

08:46 - Has anyone stopped you from using the bathroom? Are you scared of that if it hasn't happened yet?

11:33 - What are your best recommendations for allies to know about?


🔗 - Links!

9:00 - Has your social life changed since you transitioned?

9:15 - Do you prefer going out or staying in?

10:00 - Let's talk TERFs!

10:52 - Do you have any funny transition-related stories? What can you look back on and laugh about, knowing it would never have happened otherwise?

11:45 - What can I do to be a good ally?

12:12 - Guide to Allyship - An open-source starter guide to help you become a more thoughtful and practical ally.

12:50 - My Call to Action For Trans Day of Visibility

13:16 - Transgender Awareness Week - "Progress takes time, but it should not end with us going back in time."


👀 - Create change!

📣 - End anti-2SLGBTQIA+ abuse!

📣 - You can help! Everything inspiring HireWheller stays ongoing - biased systems, ignorant platforms, violent abusers & isolated victims.

📣 - Grassroots power comes from its people! Get involved or refer others you know to challenge systemic violence & oppression!


💻 - Connect!

@HireWheller: A grassroots group aiming to help the 2SLGBTQIA+ community overcome often-minimized struggles.

Instagram Facebook Twitter


👱🏼‍♀️ - Look me up!

@TaylorLakhryst: #Transgender woman, advocate, INFJ, ♊️, she/her/hers 🏳️‍⚧️

Linktree


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#asexual #queer #lesbian #lgbtq #lgbt #demisexual #pride

Monday, June 13, 2022

Hormones, Acceptance, Romance, And Priorities - #DwhellOnIt Ep. 52

Hormones, Acceptance, Romance, And Priorities - #DwhellOnIt Ep. 52


"Trans erasure, especially being platformed as loudly as it is in the US in recent history, is a real and serious thing."


❓ - What's #DwhellOnIt?

👀 - Dwhell On It is a series where I answer your questions about my lived experience as a #trans woman!

📺 - A new episode gets uploaded every week!


‼️ - Get engaged!

➕ - Subscribe for more episodes & similar content!

✉️ - Comment w/ thoughts & questions!

👍🏻 - Please like & share!


🔖 - Bookmarks!

03:08 - Have hormones made you cry about anything that you were surprised you cried about?

08:35 - What are your top priorities?

14:33 - I'm still closeted and don't know if I could ever come out because I'll get seen like I'm different. Did or do you still feel the same way, and how do you cope with that?

23:50 - Has romance changed for you since you transitioned? Are you willing to share a fantasy?

28:02 - End anti-2SLGBTQIA+ abuse!


🔗 - Links!

12:32 - What part of advocacy is your favourite? What is the most time-consuming? What is the most exhausting?

17:25 - What encouraged you to come out? Were there other times you felt you should have but didn't?

23:29 - Has your social life changed since you transitioned?

25:05 - What do you think about transphobia in the #LGBTQ community?

27:41 - What does someone who wants to love you need to know? Is there anything that someone you love needs to know?


👀 - Create change!

📣 - You can help! Everything inspiring HireWheller stays ongoing - biased systems, ignorant platforms, violent abusers & isolated victims.

📣 - Grassroots power comes from its #people! Get involved or refer others you know to challenge systemic violence & oppression!


💻 - Connect!

@HireWheller: A grassroots group aiming to help the 2SLGBTQIA+ community overcome often-minimized struggles.

Instagram Facebook Twitter


👱🏼‍♀️ - Look me up!

@TaylorLakhryst: #Transgender woman, advocate, INFJ, ♊️, she/her/hers 🏳️‍⚧️

Linktree


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#asexual #lesbian #LGBT #demisexual #pride #equality

Sunday, June 5, 2022

Transition Motivation, Advocating and Supporting #Trans Rights - #Dwhell...

Transition Motivation, Advocating and Supporting #Trans Rights - #DwhellOnIt Ep. 51


"Do not underestimate what we're saying! Don't think that we're exaggerating things. Do not think we're probably just in the moment, and it'll all just get better. Your worldview is not the same as our worldview. Your concept of the world around you is not and will never be the same as a trans individual."


‼️ - Get engaged!

➕ - Subscribe for more episodes & similar #content!

✉️ - #Comment w/ thoughts & questions!

👍🏻 - Please like & #share!


❓ - What's #DwhellOnIt?

👀 - Dwhell On It is a series where I answer your questions about my lived experience as a #trans woman!

📺 - A new episode gets uploaded every week!


🔖 - Bookmarks!

04:12 - Does anyone misgender you whom you wish they wouldn't? Have you confronted them about it?

06:04 - What keeps you motivated to keep going through your transition?

08:31 - What is the most effective way to support trans rights?

10:36 - What part of advocacy is your favourite? What is the most time-consuming? What is the most exhausting?

14:40 - End anti-2SLGBTQIA+ abuse!


🔗 - Links!

05:02 - Performative #Marketing and #Activism Harms 2SLGBTQIA+ People!

06:12 - Habits! Happiness! More H's!

06:26 - How do you feel about where you are during your transition?

06:40 - What do you want from your own life?

06:55 - Transgender Awareness Week - "Progress takes time, but it should not end with us going back in time."

07:33 - Lovers, Loving and Living It Again!

09:03 - My Call to Action For #TDOV, Trans Day of Visibility


💰 - #Donate! Help these fundraisers hit $1411!

❗️ - Support #RunForWomen & women's mental health programs!

❗️ - Support #Walk4MD & individuals who live w/ neuromuscular disorders!


👀 - Create #change!

📣 - You can #help! Everything inspiring HireWheller stays ongoing - biased systems, ignorant platforms, violent abusers & isolated victims.

📣 - Grassroots #power comes from its #people! Get involved or refer others you know to challenge systemic violence & oppression!


💻 - Connect!

@HireWheller: A grassroots group to help the 2SLGBTQIA+ #community overcome often-minimized struggles.

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👱🏼‍♀️ - Look me up!

@TaylorLakhryst: #Transgender woman, advocate, INFJ, ♊️, she/her/hers 🏳️‍⚧️

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