Risks, Fears, the Public and Its Jeers - #DwhellOnIt Ep. 63

"Society sucks! That's how it goes. Society sucks. It's not a party. It's not a great time. You don't get high-fives from everybody as soon as they discover you're #trans. You get rejected. You get isolated. You get abused. You get violated. You get fetishized. You get objectified. You get stalked and harassed. You get isolated; I might have mentioned that already. You might get ostracized; I might have mentioned THAT already! It's not a good time. It's not a good time.”

❓ - What's #DwhellOnIt?

👀 - Dwhell On It is a series where I answer your questions about my lived experience as a #trans woman!

📺 - A new episode gets uploaded every week!

‼️ - Get engaged!

➕ - Subscribe for more episodes & similar #content!

✉️ - #Comment w/ thoughts & questions!

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04:43 - How would you describe the #trans #community in three words?

04:52 - Aren't you afraid of extra abuse by saying you're #trans? As soon as I'm passable, I'm dropping that altogether.

10:40 - What have you noticed about how #people treat you in public?

15:55 - As a #transgender woman, what scares you the most?

18:23 - What risks about transitioning are entirely worth it?

🔗 - Links!

• What is your favourite piece of #clothing? Do you have outfits that never cause any dysphoria? What about clothes from "the before times?"
• Do you tell #people that you're #trans? What is your position on that and dating?
• Cis #people must #help advocate.
• For what in your life do you feel most #grateful?
• Has your #social life changed since you transitioned?

👀 - Create #change!

📣 - End anti-2SLGBTQIA+ abuse!

📣 - You can #help! Everything inspiring HireWheller stays ongoing - biased systems, ignorant platforms, violent abusers & isolated victims.

📣 - Grassroots #power comes from its #people! Get involved or refer others you know to challenge systemic violence & oppression!

💻 - Connect!

@HireWheller: A grassroots group to #help the 2SLGBTQIA+ #community overcome often-minimized struggles.

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@TaylorLakhryst: #Transgender woman, advocate, INFJ, ♊️, she/her/hers 🏳️‍⚧️

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Cooling Off, Cool Scars, Hoodies and More! - #DwhellOnIt Ep. 61

"Bigoted #people are violent. And, it's not reducing at any appreciable rate any time soon, and bigots' fixation on people's personal parts is scary, right? Disgusting. And so on."

❓ - What's #DwhellOnIt?

👀 - Dwhell On It is a series where I answer your questions about my lived experience as a #trans woman!

📺 - A new episode gets uploaded every week!

‼️ - Get engaged!

➕ - Subscribe for more episodes & similar #content!

✉️ - #Comment w/ thoughts & questions!

👍🏻 - Please like & #share!

🔖 - Bookmarks!

03:48 - Did HRT make your body experience any drastic changes that may not be obvious otherwise?

06:33 - Do you have any scars that have incredible stories?

12:26 - What is your favourite piece of clothing? Do you have outfits that never cause any dysphoria? What about clothes from "the before times?"

19:19 - How do #gender stereotypes affect your gender identity? Is there any with that you are happy or sad?

22:38 - When #people look at you, are you afraid of them seeing something that might suggest you're #trans?

🔗 - Links!

• Travelling, Being Left-Handed & More!
• When does your transition end?
• What are you most insecure about being a #transgender woman?
• Why did you start HRT if you can be #transgender without it?
• How important is being #trans to your overall identity?

👀 - Create #change!

📣 - End anti-2SLGBTQIA+ abuse!

📣 - You can #help! Everything inspiring HireWheller stays ongoing - biased systems, ignorant platforms, violent abusers & isolated victims.

📣 - Grassroots #power comes from its #people! Get involved or refer others you know to challenge systemic violence & oppression!

💻 - Connect!

@HireWheller: A grassroots group to #help the 2SLGBTQIA+ #community overcome often-minimized struggles.

Instagram #Facebook #Twitter

👱🏼‍♀️ - Look me up!

@TaylorLakhryst: #transgender woman, advocate, INFJ, ♊️, she/her/hers 🏳️‍⚧️

• Linktree: https://linktr.ee/TaylorLakhryst

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#out #LGBTQ #lesbian #LGBTQIA #LGBTQA #equality

#Gratitude, Forgiveness, Turning Points & Transphobes - #DwhellOnIt Ep. 60

"Hooray you! Hooray, cisnormative communities, cisnormative environments, cisnormative businesses, and cisnormative lawmakers, hooray that after millennia of #gender-diverse individuals existing in the world, you finally are starting to create a space where they do not get attacked as much."

❓ - What's #DwhellOnIt?

👀 - Dwhell On It is a series where I answer your questions about my lived experience as a #trans woman!

📺 - A new episode gets uploaded every week!

‼️ - Get engaged!

➕ - Subscribe for more episodes & similar #content!

✉️ - #Comment w/ thoughts & questions!

👍🏻 - Please like & #share!

🔖 - Bookmarks!

03:07 - What are the most significant turning points of a #trans person's life?

16:52 - How do you be #grateful for anything when all we face are hate and abuse and transphobia by everyone?

24:00 - What is something that you would never forgive?

29:53 - What are your religious and political views?

41:30 - What is the most challenging thing to understand about transphobes?

🔗 - Links!

• When does your transition end?
• "You mention you don't regret the time lost. How do you do that? I'm starting HRT at 39, but I've been questioning my #gender for 15-20 years, and I'm constantly thinking about what would have happened if I'd figured it #out or been braver early on."
• Let's Talk About #Sports, Emm Bee!
• How Presentation Affects Representation
• #Transgender Awareness Week - "Progress takes time, but it should not end with us going back in time."

👀 - Create #change!

📣 - End anti-2SLGBTQIA+ abuse!

📣 - You can #help! Everything inspiring HireWheller stays ongoing - biased systems, ignorant platforms, violent abusers & isolated victims.

📣 - Grassroots #power comes from its #people! Get involved or refer others you know to challenge systemic violence & oppression!

💻 - Connect!

@HireWheller: A grassroots group to #help the 2SLGBTQIA+ #community overcome often-minimized struggles.

Instagram #Facebook #Twitter

👱🏼‍♀️ - Look me up!

TaylorLakhryst: #Transgender woman, advocate, INFJ, ♊️, she/her/hers 🏳️‍⚧️

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Getting Outed, Getting Older, Trends & Ex-Girlfriends - #DwhellOnIt Ep. 59

"I acknowledge that there are failed systems. I don't go to bed worrying about it. I don't lose #sleep over it. It's because other #people are failures. Other #people are emotionally intolerant. Other #people are incapable of being compassionate, understanding, educatable, or competent, or however it goes. That's all them. Every time I get deadnamed or misgendered, I stand taller because I'm the better person."

❓ - What's #DwhellOnIt?

👀 - Dwhell On It is a series where I answer your questions about my lived experience as a #trans woman!

📺 - A new episode gets uploaded every week!

‼️ - Get engaged!

➕ - Subscribe for more episodes & similar #content!

✉️ - #Comment w/ thoughts & questions!

👍🏻 - Please like & #share!

🔖 - Bookmarks!

03:05 - Do you love or hate any fashion trends differently since you came #out?

05:41 - Has anyone ever outed you before you came #out?

08:38 - What was puberty like for you?

11:28 - How do you cope with being deadnamed or misgendered?

13:29 - Has anyone from previous relationships found #out, and have they spoken with you since?

🔗 - Links! 

• Does anyone misgender you whom you wish they wouldn't? Have you confronted them about it? - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qW-X_EPJVBU&list=PLr2CrTrMJaIzM7ETpDxpMcGHhJ1TPxPq4&index=1&t=252s
• How do you deal with trolls? Is there anything you want to do to trolls? - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VjyMgY0hBg8&list=PLr2CrTrMJaIzM7ETpDxpMcGHhJ1TPxPq4&index=1&t=1611s
• What was the best reaction you got after you came #out? The worst? The most surprising? - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xDZEoonWm4o&list=PLr2CrTrMJaIzM7ETpDxpMcGHhJ1TPxPq4&index=25&t=711s
• #Canada Voted In Favour of Policing Women's Bodies! - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d38u-qP8lqg&list=PLr2CrTrMJaIzM7ETpDxpMcGHhJ1TPxPq4&index=1
• #Winnipeg City Council Approves To Prefer #Kindness - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Uh00QF1nYUo&list=PLr2CrTrMJaIzM7ETpDxpMcGHhJ1TPxPq4&index=1

👀 - Create #change!

📣 - End anti-2SLGBTQIA+ abuse!

📣 - You can #help! Everything inspiring HireWheller stays ongoing - biased systems, ignorant platforms, violent abusers & isolated victims.

📣 - Grassroots #power comes from its #people! Get involved or refer others you know to challenge systemic violence & oppression!

💻 - Connect!

@HireWheller: A grassroots group to #help the 2SLGBTQIA+ #community overcome often-minimized struggles.

Instagram #Facebook #Twitter

👱🏼‍♀️ - Look me up!

TaylorLakhryst: #Transgender woman, advocate, INFJ, ♊️, she/her/hers 🏳️‍⚧️

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Hate, Hurt, Harassment, and Judgement - #DwhellOnIt Ep. 58

"That's the same thing as what's happening when it comes to genocide, #trans genocide, erasure, trans erasure, let alone any other type of fascism that's happening right now down south, across the pond, and in our back yards! It's happening, and I can't be quiet about that! This stuff isn't #coffee talk! We can't just pretend this isn't happening!"

❓ - What's #DwhellOnIt?

👀 - Dwhell On It is a series where I answer your questions about my lived experience as a #trans woman!

📺 - A new episode gets uploaded every week!

‼️ - Get engaged!

➕ - Subscribe for more episodes & similar #content!

✉️ - #Comment w/ thoughts & questions!

👍🏻 - Please like & #share!

🔖 - Bookmarks!

03:53 - I'm in the closet and keep all my profiles anonymous, but I follow you and other #trans advocates. I see so much of the hate and harassment you take. How do you cope with all of it?

10:26 - What do you think #people judge about you the most?

15:32 - Can you sing? Can you sing right now?

17:04 - How bad did laser hair removal hurt?

21:06 - When does your transition end?

🔗 - Links!

• What stereotypes about #trans women annoy you the most and why? - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nEtxw2wxewk&list=PLr2CrTrMJaIzM7ETpDxpMcGHhJ1TPxPq4&index=1&t=553s
• The Alt-Right Playbook - https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLJA_jUddXvY7v0VkYRbANnTnzkA_HMFtQ
• Is there anything #people assume about you once they find #out you're #trans? - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kR6mha9-B28&list=PLr2CrTrMJaIzM7ETpDxpMcGHhJ1TPxPq4&index=5&t=845s
• Expectations, Responsibilities and Talking to Goldfish - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VjyMgY0hBg8&list=PLr2CrTrMJaIzM7ETpDxpMcGHhJ1TPxPq4&index=1
• What was your experience with removing facial hair? Does electrolysis hurt? - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t5422K5hAsY&list=PLr2CrTrMJaIzM7ETpDxpMcGHhJ1TPxPq4&index=7&t=385s

👀 - Create #change!

📣 - End anti-2SLGBTQIA+ abuse!

📣 - You can #help! Everything inspiring HireWheller stays ongoing - biased systems, ignorant platforms, violent abusers & isolated victims.

📣 - Grassroots #power comes from its #people! Get involved or refer others you know to challenge systemic violence & oppression!

💻 - Connect!

@HireWheller: A grassroots group to #help the 2SLGBTQIA+ #community overcome often-minimized struggles.

Instagram #Facebook #Twitter

👱🏼‍♀️ - Look me up!

TaylorLakhryst: #Transgender woman, advocate, INFJ, ♊️, she/her/hers 🏳️‍⚧️

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Being Trans, Playing Games, Getting Loved, and More! - #DwhellOnIt Ep. 57

"Would I stop? Would I go back to a pre-transition life? Would I erase being #trans from who I am as a person? No! Absolutely not! My name is Taylor Lakhryst. I am a #transgender woman proud to be who I am."

❓ - What's #DwhellOnIt?

👀 - Dwhell On It is a series where I answer your questions about my lived experience as a #trans woman!

📺 - A new episode gets uploaded every week!

‼️ - Get engaged!

➕ - Subscribe for more episodes & similar #content!

✉️ - #Comment w/ thoughts & questions!

👍🏻 - Please like & #share!

🔖 - Bookmarks!

04:19 - How important is being #trans to your overall identity?

08:22 - Do you play games? In what game universe would you want to live?

13:03 - What parts of your life have changed since you came #out as a #trans woman?

16:55 - What can you say to a mature #transgender woman who feels like nobody won't ever love her? FYI, I'm recently divorced.

24:57 - Is there anywhere you feel more #out of place now than before you transitioned?

27:41 - End anti-2SLGBTQIA+ abuse!

🔗 - Links!

#Canada Voted In Favour of Policing Women's Bodies! - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d38u-qP8lqg&list=PLr2CrTrMJaIzM7ETpDxpMcGHhJ1TPxPq4&index=1

Expectations, Responsibilities and Talking to Goldfish - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VjyMgY0hBg8&list=PLr2CrTrMJaIzM7ETpDxpMcGHhJ1TPxPq4&index=1

How Presentation Affects Representation - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HvYnMgeH_IU&list=PLr2CrTrMJaIzM7ETpDxpMcGHhJ1TPxPq4&index=1

Has your #social life changed since you transitioned? - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DUrOnn4p6ak&list=PLr2CrTrMJaIzM7ETpDxpMcGHhJ1TPxPq4&index=11&t=490s

Has romance changed for you since you transitioned? Are you willing to share a fantasy? - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hcCfwc7oGCc&list=PLr2CrTrMJaIzM7ETpDxpMcGHhJ1TPxPq4&index=1&t=1430s

👀 - Create #change!

📣 - End anti-2SLGBTQIA+ abuse!

📣 - You can #help! Everything inspiring HireWheller stays ongoing - biased systems, ignorant platforms, violent abusers & isolated victims.

📣 - Grassroots #power comes from its #people! Get involved or refer others you know to challenge systemic violence & oppression!

💻 - Connect!

@HireWheller: A grassroots group to #help the 2SLGBTQIA+ #community overcome often-minimized struggles.

Instagram #Facebook #Twitter

👱🏼‍♀️ - Look me up!

TaylorLakhryst: #Transgender woman, advocate, INFJ, ♊️, she/her/hers 🏳️‍⚧️

Linktree

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Expectations, Responsibilities and Talking to Goldfish - #DwhellOnIt Ep. 55

"Putting the responsibility on #trans #people to drive the #change against cis people who have implemented the reasons why trans people get oppressed is a tall order to ask."

❓ - What's #DwhellOnIt?

👀 - Dwhell On It is a series where I answer your questions about my lived experience as a #trans woman!

📺 - A new episode gets uploaded every week!

‼️ - Get engaged!

➕ - Subscribe for more episodes & similar content!

✉️ - Comment w/ thoughts & questions!

👍🏻 - Please like & share!

🔖 - Bookmarks!

03:25 - "You mention you don't regret the time lost. I'm starting HRT at 39, but I've been questioning my #gender for 15-20 years, and I'm constantly thinking about what would have happened if I'd figured it #out or been braver early on. How do you do that?"

16:36 - Is there anything you feel as a #trans person you do better than a cis person?

26:51 - How do you deal with trolls? Is there anything you wish you could do to trolls?

29:17 - Is there anything that #people expect you to be good at but are very bad at?

35:06 - Is there a responsibility you feel is unfairly put on #transgender #people?

40:08 - End anti-2SLGBTQIA+ abuse! - https://act.newmode.net/action/hirewheller/csr

🔗 - Links!

I'm still closeted and don't know if I could ever come #out because I'll get seen like I'm different. Did or do you still feel the same way, and how do you cope with that?

What are your best recommendations for allies to know about?

#Canada Voted In Favour of Policing Women's Bodies!

My Call to Action For #Trans Day of Visibility

Does Sport #Manitoba Fund Non-Inclusive PSOs?

👀 - Create change!

📣 - End anti-2SLGBTQIA+ abuse!

📣 - You can #help! Everything inspiring HireWheller stays ongoing - biased systems, ignorant platforms, violent abusers & isolated victims.

📣 - Grassroots power comes from its people! Get involved or refer others you know to challenge systemic violence & oppression!

💻 - Connect!

HireWheller: A grassroots group aiming to help the 2SLGBTQIA+ community overcome often-minimized struggles.

Instagram Facebook Twitter

👱🏼‍♀️ - Look me up!

TaylorLakhryst: #Transgender woman, advocate, INFJ, ♊️, she/her/hers 🏳️‍⚧️

Linktree

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