Cooling Off, Cool Scars, Hoodies and More! - #DwhellOnIt Ep. 61

"Bigoted #people are violent. And, it's not reducing at any appreciable rate any time soon, and bigots' fixation on people's personal parts is scary, right? Disgusting. And so on."

❓ - What's #DwhellOnIt?

👀 - Dwhell On It is a series where I answer your questions about my lived experience as a #trans woman!

📺 - A new episode gets uploaded every week!

‼️ - Get engaged!

➕ - Subscribe for more episodes & similar #content!

✉️ - #Comment w/ thoughts & questions!

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03:48 - Did HRT make your body experience any drastic changes that may not be obvious otherwise?

06:33 - Do you have any scars that have incredible stories?

12:26 - What is your favourite piece of clothing? Do you have outfits that never cause any dysphoria? What about clothes from "the before times?"

19:19 - How do #gender stereotypes affect your gender identity? Is there any with that you are happy or sad?

22:38 - When #people look at you, are you afraid of them seeing something that might suggest you're #trans?

🔗 - Links!

• Travelling, Being Left-Handed & More!
• When does your transition end?
• What are you most insecure about being a #transgender woman?
• Why did you start HRT if you can be #transgender without it?
• How important is being #trans to your overall identity?

👀 - Create #change!

📣 - End anti-2SLGBTQIA+ abuse!

📣 - You can #help! Everything inspiring HireWheller stays ongoing - biased systems, ignorant platforms, violent abusers & isolated victims.

📣 - Grassroots #power comes from its #people! Get involved or refer others you know to challenge systemic violence & oppression!

💻 - Connect!

@HireWheller: A grassroots group to #help the 2SLGBTQIA+ #community overcome often-minimized struggles.

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@TaylorLakhryst: #transgender woman, advocate, INFJ, ♊️, she/her/hers 🏳️‍⚧️

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#out #LGBTQ #lesbian #LGBTQIA #LGBTQA #equality

#Gratitude, Forgiveness, Turning Points & Transphobes - #DwhellOnIt Ep. 60

"Hooray you! Hooray, cisnormative communities, cisnormative environments, cisnormative businesses, and cisnormative lawmakers, hooray that after millennia of #gender-diverse individuals existing in the world, you finally are starting to create a space where they do not get attacked as much."

❓ - What's #DwhellOnIt?

👀 - Dwhell On It is a series where I answer your questions about my lived experience as a #trans woman!

📺 - A new episode gets uploaded every week!

‼️ - Get engaged!

➕ - Subscribe for more episodes & similar #content!

✉️ - #Comment w/ thoughts & questions!

👍🏻 - Please like & #share!

🔖 - Bookmarks!

03:07 - What are the most significant turning points of a #trans person's life?

16:52 - How do you be #grateful for anything when all we face are hate and abuse and transphobia by everyone?

24:00 - What is something that you would never forgive?

29:53 - What are your religious and political views?

41:30 - What is the most challenging thing to understand about transphobes?

🔗 - Links!

• When does your transition end?
• "You mention you don't regret the time lost. How do you do that? I'm starting HRT at 39, but I've been questioning my #gender for 15-20 years, and I'm constantly thinking about what would have happened if I'd figured it #out or been braver early on."
• Let's Talk About #Sports, Emm Bee!
• How Presentation Affects Representation
• #Transgender Awareness Week - "Progress takes time, but it should not end with us going back in time."

👀 - Create #change!

📣 - End anti-2SLGBTQIA+ abuse!

📣 - You can #help! Everything inspiring HireWheller stays ongoing - biased systems, ignorant platforms, violent abusers & isolated victims.

📣 - Grassroots #power comes from its #people! Get involved or refer others you know to challenge systemic violence & oppression!

💻 - Connect!

@HireWheller: A grassroots group to #help the 2SLGBTQIA+ #community overcome often-minimized struggles.

Instagram #Facebook #Twitter

👱🏼‍♀️ - Look me up!

TaylorLakhryst: #Transgender woman, advocate, INFJ, ♊️, she/her/hers 🏳️‍⚧️

Linktree

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#LGBTQ #LGBT #pride #equality

Getting Outed, Getting Older, Trends & Ex-Girlfriends - #DwhellOnIt Ep. 59

"I acknowledge that there are failed systems. I don't go to bed worrying about it. I don't lose #sleep over it. It's because other #people are failures. Other #people are emotionally intolerant. Other #people are incapable of being compassionate, understanding, educatable, or competent, or however it goes. That's all them. Every time I get deadnamed or misgendered, I stand taller because I'm the better person."

❓ - What's #DwhellOnIt?

👀 - Dwhell On It is a series where I answer your questions about my lived experience as a #trans woman!

📺 - A new episode gets uploaded every week!

‼️ - Get engaged!

➕ - Subscribe for more episodes & similar #content!

✉️ - #Comment w/ thoughts & questions!

👍🏻 - Please like & #share!

🔖 - Bookmarks!

03:05 - Do you love or hate any fashion trends differently since you came #out?

05:41 - Has anyone ever outed you before you came #out?

08:38 - What was puberty like for you?

11:28 - How do you cope with being deadnamed or misgendered?

13:29 - Has anyone from previous relationships found #out, and have they spoken with you since?

🔗 - Links! 

• Does anyone misgender you whom you wish they wouldn't? Have you confronted them about it? - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qW-X_EPJVBU&list=PLr2CrTrMJaIzM7ETpDxpMcGHhJ1TPxPq4&index=1&t=252s
• How do you deal with trolls? Is there anything you want to do to trolls? - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VjyMgY0hBg8&list=PLr2CrTrMJaIzM7ETpDxpMcGHhJ1TPxPq4&index=1&t=1611s
• What was the best reaction you got after you came #out? The worst? The most surprising? - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xDZEoonWm4o&list=PLr2CrTrMJaIzM7ETpDxpMcGHhJ1TPxPq4&index=25&t=711s
• #Canada Voted In Favour of Policing Women's Bodies! - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d38u-qP8lqg&list=PLr2CrTrMJaIzM7ETpDxpMcGHhJ1TPxPq4&index=1
• #Winnipeg City Council Approves To Prefer #Kindness - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Uh00QF1nYUo&list=PLr2CrTrMJaIzM7ETpDxpMcGHhJ1TPxPq4&index=1

👀 - Create #change!

📣 - End anti-2SLGBTQIA+ abuse!

📣 - You can #help! Everything inspiring HireWheller stays ongoing - biased systems, ignorant platforms, violent abusers & isolated victims.

📣 - Grassroots #power comes from its #people! Get involved or refer others you know to challenge systemic violence & oppression!

💻 - Connect!

@HireWheller: A grassroots group to #help the 2SLGBTQIA+ #community overcome often-minimized struggles.

Instagram #Facebook #Twitter

👱🏼‍♀️ - Look me up!

TaylorLakhryst: #Transgender woman, advocate, INFJ, ♊️, she/her/hers 🏳️‍⚧️

Linktree

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• Text: Dwhell on it w/ Taylor Lakhryst Ep. 59 - Getting Outed, Getting Older, Trends & Ex-Girlfriends - HIREWHELLER
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